Category: The Catholic Family

On Thanksgiving: Eat. Pray. Love. Do Not Watch Lady Gaga.
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On Thanksgiving: Eat. Pray. Love. Do Not Watch Lady Gaga.

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ABC has just announced that on Thanksgiving Day, as Americans sit back to digest the turkey and stuffing, the network will air a 90-minute prime-time special “A Very Gaga Thanksgiving.” Call me a cynic, but I’m thinking this won’t be your typical “Charlie Brown Thanksgiving” kind of show.  Hopefully, the pop star won’t be wearing […]

Sexy in Context Is Holy
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Sexy in Context Is Holy

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Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth—for your love is more delightful than wine. Pleasing is the fragrance of your perfumes; your name is like perfume poured out. No wonder the young women love you! Take me away with you—let us hurry! Let the king bring me into his chambers. (Song of […]

Why One Child is Not Enough
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Why One Child is Not Enough

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In her National Post article “Only planet: Why one child is often enough,” Connie Jeske Crane reviews Susan Newman’s book The Case for the Only Child: Your Essential Guide. The book challenges the negative stereotypes surrounding the phenomenon of “onlies” ­— children who grow up with no siblings. She confronts the societal notion that only children […]

In Philadelphia, A Model School Kindles Hope
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In Philadelphia, A Model School Kindles Hope

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For too long government-run systems have dominated American primary and secondary education. As innovations of the past two decades such as charter schools and vouchers prove, parents, children, and society benefit when government promotes rather than stifles educational reform based on choice and competition. Add to the mounting evidence another success story: St. Martin de […]

The Call to Live Transformed Lives as Catholic Men
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The Call to Live Transformed Lives as Catholic Men

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For I am not ashamed of the gospel. It is the power of God for the salvation of everyone who believes: for Jew first, and then Greek. For in it is revealed the righteousness of God from faith to faith; as it is written, “The one who is righteous by faith will live.” The wrath […]

Love Notes: A Catechesis for Marriage on the Brink
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Love Notes: A Catechesis for Marriage on the Brink

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The king of love my shepherd is, whose goodness faileth never; I nothing lack if I am his, and he is mine forever. -From “The King of Love my Shepherd Is” by Henry Williams Baker Marriage is an image of Christ and His bride, the Church. It is a sanctuary for love, for the bringing […]

Parenting Problems: What’s Wrong with Changing Thomas into “Tammy”?
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Parenting Problems: What’s Wrong with Changing Thomas into “Tammy”?

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What comes to mind when you hear the word “parenting?” Perhaps being attentive, nurturing, caring, loving and wanting what’s best for a child. But what happens when parents’ good intentions go awry? Take the case of Thomas Lobel: Thomas was adopted by same-sex couple Pauline Moreno and Debra Lobel when he was 2 years old.[1] […]

A Heavy Toll for Today's Young Women
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A Heavy Toll for Today’s Young Women

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In August, when HBO released a documentary about feminist icon Gloria Steinem, critics knew in advance what to expect. HBO executive Sheila Nevins made it clear that the finished product would be not biography but hagiography, “an inspirational film about St. Gloria,” as she put it in one interview. The film lived up to its billing, […]

This Is My Body
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This Is My Body

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A few months ago, I was e-commiserating with a friend about the physical challenges of having children. We were neighbors in the hospital as she delivered her seventh on the same day my fifth was born. Obviously, neither of us were surprised with the toll childbirth, sleepless nights, and nursing took on us.  With the […]

If You Quit, You Can't Blame God
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If You Quit, You Can’t Blame God

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We all feel tempted to quit sometimes. Whether they are related to relationships, parenting, or work, there are moments in life when we simply want to throw up our arms in frustration and give up. And, sometimes, we want to blame God. After all, God allowed circumstances to be so hard. Obviously, God doesn’t want […]

Can’t We Battle Bullying Without Politics?
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Can’t We Battle Bullying Without Politics?

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If there’s one thing virtually everyone can agree on, it’s that bullying is bad. In fact, a recent survey commissioned by Care.com, a caregiver referral company, revealed that bullying is the No. 1 concern of parents of school-aged children — even more so than the fear of kidnapping. We’re all more aware of, and alarmed […]

Your Relationship Deserves a Good Home
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Your Relationship Deserves a Good Home

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“With the Lord, there is mercy and fullness of redemption.”   This responsorial psalm is derived from Psalm 130, which has the trembling words “If Thou, O Lord, should mark iniquities, who could stand?”  In other words, if You keep a record of sins, who could ever make it to heaven? How true.  We are committed […]

The Call to be Disciples as Catholic Men
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The Call to be Disciples as Catholic Men

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Then James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came to him and said to him, “Teacher, we want you to do for us whatever we ask of you.” He replied, “What do you wish me to do for you?” They answered him, “Grant that in your glory we may sit one at your right and […]

Parenting Advice from the Brink
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Parenting Advice from the Brink

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The Gray Lady ran an opinion column this weekend by Emily Rapp, mother to 18-month-old Ronan. Ronan has Tay-Sachs disease and, by all medical estimates, will die in a particularly gruesome manner before he is three. The subject is chilling, but I was particularly struck by her critical analysis–wisdom gained in suffering–of our parenting culture. […]

Detacho: Modular Dollhouses for Fractured Families
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Detacho: Modular Dollhouses for Fractured Families

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Okay, now this is just sad. Toys help children to learn and prepare them for life.  That’s why industrial designer Ben Forman (benformandesign.co.uk) has introduced a new dollhouse to help today’s modern preschooler prepare for the inevitable unhappy changes in her family structure.  It’s called Detacho. Detacho families, like so many contemporary American families, can […]

<em>St. Mary’s Messenger</em>, Catholic Magazine for Kids
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St. Mary’s Messenger, Catholic Magazine for Kids

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How would you like to be splashed with water as you walk down the street?  In Poland, that’s how they say, “Happy Easter!” If you had read last Easter’s issue of St. Mary’s Messenger magazine for children, you would have known that.   I recently stumbled upon St. Mary’s Messenger through a phone call from Kris […]

The Role Monogamy Must Play in the Future of Marriage
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The Role Monogamy Must Play in the Future of Marriage

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The Atlantic recently posted an article by Rachel R. White entitled, “The Role Non-Monogamy Will Play in the Future of Marriage” (Oct. 3, 2011), in which she interviews Pamela Haag, the author of the book Marriage Confidential. Haag claims that “marriage has changed over time in both perception and practice,” stating that “even the Bible was […]

Some Belated Parental Advice to Protesters
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Some Belated Parental Advice to Protesters

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Call it an occupational hazard, but I can’t look at the Occupy Wall Street protesters without thinking, “Who parented these people?” As a culture columnist, I’ve commented on the social and political ramifications of the “movement” – now known as “OWS” – whose fairyland agenda can be summarized by one of their placards: “Everything for […]

Graceful Surprises Build a Family
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Graceful Surprises Build a Family

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Twenty-six years ago today, I gave birth to our first born. Amazing how those years slipped by so quickly. Now he’s a grown man with hopes and dreams of his own, and I feel privileged at being able to witness how they unfold. I remember the day I found out I was pregnant with him. […]

Appreciating the Simple Moments
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Appreciating the Simple Moments

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Today was a beautiful fall day and I spent some of it outside blowing bubbles with a two-year-old. I would blow the bubbles and he would chase them and try to catch them – giggling with delight the whole time. As I blew the bubbles again and again, I couldn’t help but reflect on the […]

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The Most Important Person

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Every child deserves to be the most important person in the world to someone.  The ever pithy Lou Holtz, who said of himself:  “I’m so old I don’t even buy green bananas anymore,” once made an observation to the effect of:  “80% of people don’t care about you one way or the other.  19% of […]

Living What We Believe as Catholic Men
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Living What We Believe as Catholic Men

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When Jesus went into the region of Caesarea Philippi* he asked his disciples, “Who do people say that the Son of Man is?” They replied, “Some say John the Baptist,* others Elijah, still others Jeremiah or one of the prophets.” He said to them, “But who do you say that I am?” Simon Peter said […]

So Long, Freedom of Thought
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So Long, Freedom of Thought

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The college years used to be known as a time to explore new ideas, adopt new identities and embrace — and discard — new affiliations. You could arrive on campus a political conservative and leave a liberal; enter a staunch atheist and exit a devout believer; declare yourself a biology major, then switch to theater […]

Vision of a ‘Just Society’ is Just Plain Funny
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Vision of a ‘Just Society’ is Just Plain Funny

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If you’ve been too busy holding down a job (or two), juggling the demands of a busy family, engaging in community service and occasionally taking the wife and children out for a pizza on a Saturday night, you may not have noticed that several thousand protesters have “occupied” Wall Street, the District and other locations […]